FREDERICK, Md. (WDVM) — Hair salons and barbershops are sometimes marketed to at least one gender or the opposite. But what does that imply for members of the LGTBQ+ neighborhood? In mild of latest legal guidelines aimed toward marginalizing members of the LGBTQ+ neighborhood, hair stylists and activists in Maryland are working to create a protected and open area for members of the queer neighborhood.
In mild of payments just like the ‘Don’t Say Gay’ Bill, some hair salons in Frederick say gender or orientation shouldn’t matter once you sit down for a haircut, together with the proprietor of New York New York Hair Salon, Mary Louise Riser.
“We’re just here for everybody and whatever it is you want to be [it’s] nothing that’s a surprise for us as hairdressers,” Riser, a hairstylist of over 30 years, defined. “Helping people out to learn how to style like a woman, to learn how to style like a man, it doesn’t matter to us. We want you to be happy. We want you to feel good about yourself.”
Riser additionally partnered with The Frederick Center to supply a hair and make-up tutorial evening for youths and teenagers on the New York New York Hair Salon. Around 20 children got tips about the right way to model their hair, which merchandise greatest match their hair sort, in addition to make-up suggestions like the right way to prep pores and skin for basis and what merchandise would greatest match their pores and skin.
Anne Warnock, supervisor and proprietor of Sam Wong Salon, is shocked that extra salons aren’t as accepting of LGBTQ+ purchasers.
“I think we’re going backward inequality and acceptance and it’s completely wrong,” Warnock stated. “So it’s necessary for us to face up and be loud. To be pleased with all of our purchasers it doesn’t matter what.
Glorie Cassutto, the Support Programs Coordinator on the Frederick Center, identifies as non-binary and says hair cuts could be a daunting and typically destructive expertise for members of the LGBTQ+ neighborhood.
“If a trans person has not yet started to physically transition, and they go in and they’re misgendered right off the bat because their appearance doesn’t necessarily match what we believe a woman or a man should look like,” Cassutto defined. “That assumption is made and it’s a negative experience, and that can be very harmful.”
The Frederick Center says LGBTQ+ points and laws are dangerous to all members of the queer neighborhood, not simply ones the place the laws originates from. Executive Director Kris Fair explains the Don’t Say Gay Bill and legislations that ban trans-affirming providers in Texas are just a few examples of the hurtful and dangerous laws for members of the LGBTQ+ neighborhood, particularly children and teenagers.
“The kids don’t know what that means in their local communities. Does this impact me will this one day impact me essentially, are they coming for me?” Fair defined. “That creates a lot of anxiety, a lot of stress, and it does not do anything to lower the temperature in these conversations. It simply makes it more stressful and more dangerous for LGBTQ people.”
Cassutto additionally has this message for stylists to allow them to make their salon chairs open to all. She says the easy query of asking individuals their names and pronouns is a step in the proper route to creating any consumer, particularly members of the trans and LGTBQ neighborhood, really feel welcome and revered. She says that whereas that dialog could look completely different with each consumer and stylist, it’ll create a dialogue and a protected area for the interplay.
“So having those open conversations, being willing to listen and to trust that that individual knows what they want to do with their own body and their hair and how they want to look and trusting that and following that absolutely is important,” Cassutto stated.
The Frederick Center additionally offers coaching periods for companies and neighborhood members to create extra affirming and welcoming areas for trans individuals and members of the LGBTQ+ neighborhood.